Broken Heart

I don't know about any of you, but broken hearts are the worst. You can't stop them! And they end up taking control of you're emotions, so you could be in the bookstore, or something and BAM you start bawling your eyes out because you just now realized that you don't love them anymore no matter how much you still want to. But what if they don't love you anymore either? That would make the break-up equal, and you two could probably remain friends without the awkwardness. If they still love you...what are you supposed to do? Say "its not you its me?" that's a damn cheesy line. I need help on this =[